Practical considerations
Thinking through the practical side of parenthood can help you feel more prepared and identify where you might need support.
Here are some areas to consider.
Social support
Having people around you who can offer both emotional and practical support can make a real difference during pregnancy and after your baby arrives.
Some questions to reflect on:
- Do you have a partner, family member, or close friend you trust who can support you through this journey?
- Who could you turn to in moments when you need help?
- What kind of support would be most valuable to you?
If you're not sure who you can turn to, or if your support network feels limited, speaking with a counsellor or professional can help you explore your options.
Talking to others about your pregnancy
If you're continuing the pregnancy, letting those around you know can help them support you. This conversation can feel daunting, but a little preparation can make it easier.
Some tips that might help:
- Where and when: Choose a time and place where you can both sit down and process things together without rushing.
- How: Be direct and clear with what you know — for example, "I missed my period but am not sure yet," or "I took a pregnancy test and it was positive," or "I've seen a doctor and had an ultrasound."
- Why: If you know what kind of support you need, share that too — for example, "I need to see the doctor but don't want to go alone," or "I need someone to talk to about changes to my work or studies."
- Consider having support: You might want a trusted friend, family member, or even a social service professional there with you during the conversation.
Even if you decide to continue as a single parent, you're not alone. There are many ways to find support through this journey. The Life.sg family and parenting resources can be a helpful starting point.
Financial considerations
Raising a child comes with financial responsibilities, so it's worth taking an honest look at your current situation and what might change.
Some things to think about:
- How stable is your income right now, and over the next year?
- What is your housing situation? Do you have enough space to accommodate a baby, and is it secure?
- Do you have health insurance or access to affordable prenatal care?
- If you work or study, what childcare options might be available to you?
In Singapore, you are generally responsible for supporting your child until they turn 21.
If you need financial assistance or want to explore what support is available, your nearest Family Service Centre can help. You might also find it helpful to read "How much does it cost to raise a baby in the first year? " for a clearer picture of what to expect.
Work, school, and other life plans
Pregnancy and parenthood may affect your job or education, and you might need to take a break or make adjustments along the way.
If you're working or studying, it's worth checking with your employer or institution to understand your options.
Some guiding questions:
- Is parental leave or flexible work available to you?
- Would you prefer to pause your current path for a while, or continue with adjustments?
- What support might your workplace or school offer during this time?
There's no one-size-fits-all answer. What matters is finding an approach that works for your circumstances.
Now that you've had a chance to reflect on some practical aspects, you can continue exploring at your own pace.